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In my work with women, I’m trained to offer a range of specialised perspectives that others may shy away from. 


Most importantly, our focus is on the here and now.


I will ask you, ‘where you are now and where do you want to be?’ We may gently look into your past to see if there is a pattern that is holding you back. 


I might use an approach that helps you connect with your body and get out of your head. I may or may not bring in body-based coaching. I design my sessions drawing from a range of ideas that integrate transformative physical, mental and emotional practices. I look at the whole of you.


Sex and relationships occupy a big part of our lives and we all know when things go wrong, not as expected or there are unresolved concerns – it simply affects every part of your existence.


We talk about the real stuff. The stuff that often gets skipped. Don’t worry though as we will have a laugh or two as well.

``We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are.`` (Anais Nin, taken from the Talmund)

With that in mind, my work with women assists to expand beyond your possible beliefs around the limitations of age, fitness, looks, sexual preferences, sexual orientation or sexual trauma.

Together, we will address your concerns, move through your challenges and help you become attuned to your unique way of experiencing pleasure so you can create the sex life YOU desire and deserve.

One that nourishes your body and feeds your soul.


  • Lack of desire, arousal difficulties – too tired, kids around, chores to be done
  • Orgasm difficulties – no orgasm, not so great orgasms, wanting better orgasms, taking too long, faking it, feeling pressured
  • Do you feel like sex is no longer fun? Was it ever fun?
  • Do you assume all of your partner’s touch is a prelude to sex?
  • Is sex painful?
  • Do you feel like you have sexual needs that your partner doesn’t understand?
  • Do you experience relationship challenges such as communication and /or negotiation conflicts?
  • Are you feeling insecure or shameful about what turns you on?
  • Loss or lack of emotional connection
  • Masturbation – find out what works for you and expand your knowledge.
  • Become consent savvy and know your boundaries
  • How do you communicate to your partner what you want, where and how to be touched?
  • Menopause or hormonal changes
  • Lack of excitement, sensuality, intimacy
  • Do you want to bring in something new and don’t know how?
  • Are medication or illness affecting your sex life?


  • Experience more pleasure during sex
  • Understand your sexual anatomy and discover what works for you
  • Reconnect with your desire and sexuality at any age
  • Bridge the desire gap between you and your partner
  • Let go of agendas and expectations
  • Navigate the world of 21st century dating
  • Learn to communicate about sex and ask for what YOU want
  • Improve and transform your body image and self-esteem
  • Develop healthy attitudes about sex after trauma
  • Embrace your true sexual identity or sexual orientation
  • Explore BDSM ~ Kink ~ Alternative Sex
  • Trust your body’s innate wisdom
  • Gain the confidence to ask any questions you want about sex


I offer a complimentary 15minute phone call. 

This is to determine if I am the right practitioner for you. Once we have established that my services suit your needs I offer sessions in person, phone or zoom. Phone and zoom are available nationally and internationally. I can also work with you in German and/or Italian.

Is Sex-Coaching for you?

Schedule a 15 minute Complimentary Coaching Call with Sylvia