HOW I WORK WITH MEN

In my work with men, I’m trained to offer a range of specialised perspectives that others may shy away from. 

Most importantly, our focus is on the here and now.

I will ask you, ‘where you are now and where do you want to be?’ We may gently look into your past to see if there is a pattern that is holding you back. 

I might use an approach that helps you connect with your body and get out of your head. I may or may not bring in body-based coaching. I design my sessions drawing from a range of ideas that integrate transformative physical, mental and emotional practices. I look at the whole of you.

Sex and relationships occupy a big part of our lives and we all know when things go wrong, not as expected or there are unresolved concerns – it simply affects every part of your existence.

We talk about the real stuff. The stuff that often gets skipped. Don’t worry though as we will have a laugh or two as well.

I CAN ASSIST YOU WITH…

• Do you feel like you are supposed to be an expert about sex and how to satisfy your partner?
• Do you have frequent, but mechanical and unfulfilling sex?
• Do you feel you can’t seem to please your partner
• Are you always the one initiating sex?
• Is it more stressful than fun?
• Do you experience low or lack of sexual desire?
• Are you compulsively watching porn?
• Is your body not responding the way it used to?
• Are you sexual trauma survivor?
• Are you sexually inexperienced, unprepared?
• Do you feel insecure or lack of confidence with dating?
• Do you love you partner, but lost the attraction?
• Are you feeling shameful about what turns you on?

• Becoming a great lover at any age
• Learning how to connect to women 
• Bridging the desire gap between you and your partner
• Discover new tools to expand your sexual repertoire
• Learning to communicate about sex and ask for what YOU want
• Aquiring skills to navigate relationship challenges and conflicts with communication, negotiation and relational skills
• Improving and transform your body image and self-esteem (size, weight)
• Navigating the dating world of the 21st century and/or after a long term relationship/divorce
• Letting go of agenda and expectations
• Embracing your true sexual identity 
• Exploring BDSM ~ Kink ~ Alternative Sex
• Having the confidence to ask any questions you want about sex
• Overcoming performance anxiety that leads to erectile and/or ejaculation problems or stops you from being sexual or intimate
• Revisiting sex due to prostate health issues and ageing concerns 
• Rediscovering the joy in sex and your body

Early ejaculation is one of the issues that men face at times.

What is classified as premature ejaculation?

More or less if you ejaculate within one minute of penetration, according to the DSM-5, which is the diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders), but we don’t want to focus on a diagnosis.

If this frustrates you and/or your partner and causes problems in your relationship or you avoid being intimate with your partner, then you may want to consider seeking a solution. Now there is so much you can do to extend that one minute. 

Regardless of your age, fitness, looks, preferences or sexual orientation, you deserve to have a tank full of love and a great sex life. You are uniquely designed and perfect the way you are.

Together, we will address your concerns, move through your challenges, help you become attuned to what your partner wants, understand the art of intimacy and tailor your sexual repertoire to help you become a skilled and content lover.

TAKE THE NEXT STEP…

I offer a complimentary 15 minute phone call. 

This is to determine if I am the right practitioner for you. Once we have established that my services suit your needs I offer sessions in person, phone or zoom. Phone and zoom are available nationally and internationally. I can also work with you in German and/or Italian.